Love Giver


By Francine Van, Guest Contributor
“Well te rusten,” was our nightly gesture, a Dutch phrase translating to “rest well,” and the only ritual practiced daily that brought peace to my inner world.

Two years, two people, and two very different relationships endured between a mother and daughter. A lifetime of personalities had settled comfortably, and required new vigor for a caring role reversal, as we merged lives.

The light bulb idea was mine as I suggested mom move in with me. I offered an extra bedroom at the condo I purchased for my retirement at a small lakeside community. I found her increased needs entailed exhaustive attention when she lived alone, and required daily visits to bring food. I cleaned, arranged appointments, paid her bills, and became her taxi. More seriously, reminders of regular routines like bath time, med-time, mealtime, and locking her door were also necessity.

Mom had difficulty with the decision; one day she ruled favourably in the choice, but then the next remained non-committal. She unfortunately forgot her final decision to move with me.

This trek with mom began with hope, a journey of love, and seriously railroaded off the tracks days after we moved. A nasty transition ensued, as I unpacked and she sat staring out the window.

She was vocal about her unhappiness, but silent in her retreat with this disease. My sense of hopelessness surfaced, not understanding how I was capable of providing the essentials of life, yet could not fix this situation for her. I knew she could not live alone.

I grimly noted my loss of privacy and social life. Resentment simmered, knowing she was not at fault. I never realized the encompassing work caring for a loved one, who became a disgruntled, unrepentant guest. Sorting my emotions became a dilemma, and feelings of suffocation arose. My lakeside dream crumbled, and my retreat changed into a prison.

A day-away program was a Band-Aid in assisting with her care, or was it for my care? Support was the goal, but the ultimate result attached me to their schedule. Respite care was exceedingly difficult to obtain, if at all. My freedom nevertheless diminished.

We weaved our existence around each other, but the oppressive energy in my home radiated. I became her total support system, yet wondered if I was helping her at all.

“What day is it?” was her morning question, this habit repeated every day, and it would not be an exaggeration to mention it could reoccur again a few hours later. Groundhog Day, the movie, once had me laughing at the repetition, but now the regurgitated theme troubled me, this reality inferred in my life.

My questions multiplied with lessened expectations of mom’s capabilities. Her mental functions deteriorated with no known navigation, and living with this disease of dementia, presented the most confusing, non-patterned survival. Each personality piloting this brain maze will live it differently, and the love givers live this same life!

“It takes a village.” is a common saying for raising children and I have learned the meaning also holds true for elder care. No one can go it alone.

Two years passed and my quest for additional help towered. I fell deeper into my misery, depression lurking for both of us. How could I make life decisions for another human being? She is here to live her own unique journey, so I struggled with this challenge.

The call came at four p.m. on New Year’s Eve. A bed at a long-term care residence was available immediately for her. No time to worry, we were rushed through the preparations, instructions, and tests. She appeared to understand, had wanted this move, but I still wondered if it was all clear to her. I felt grace in action the way the universe fell into place that day.

She explored the new surroundings without hesitation. She was back in the city she had called home.

She now seems content residing across the street from her old apartment. A new slice of life sprouted in this nursing home, mom unfolding with a re-energized spirit, and choices of a manicure or bingo her only concern.

Long-term residence care survives criticism by various standards, yet continues to provide elder care housing, as society searches for improved, alternative options. I must end with a shout out of thanks to this village currently supporting mom’s needs.

A fresh relationship surfaced for us too, and I am pleased we have recreated a new, old friendship. She has taught me endurance and adaptability.

Love overwhelms me again.

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Time Passing By



By Francine Van, Guest Contributor

Two years have passed since my last blog at this site. I reflect and remember my exploration of my inner desires to find my creative purpose in this world with retirement fresh. I have made several attempts in different directions, just following the moment of interest and as the expression goes, just as I was making plans a purpose found me.  A year as caregiver for my mother has taught me many things and my creative purpose is not one of them! The presence of death becoming a little closer, my pursuit is becoming a pressure of endurance in my efforts to raise my level of contentment.

I am one of millions always searching or longing for more, and believe I will follow my heart to keep my spirit alive and excited in whatever ways nourish me. I struggle with draining useless tasks that consume us, some required in this society and limit our freedom. I am always seeking new innovative explorations and look forward to comments of advice and suggestions.

I recently heard a comment about life being a changing set of circumstances you have to figure out and was inspired to write this free verse poem to describe my life at the moment.

This quote captures the essence of what I am experiencing at this time.

“life begins at the end of your comfort zone” ~ Neale Donald Walsch

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Inadequate Standards For Elder Care Facilities

More and more serious concerns are being raised about the standard of care provided by many elder care facilities. Concerns range from overcrowding, insufficient staff, untrained staff, staff abuse and to dangerous and sometimes deadly confrontations that occur between residents suffering from neurological conditions such as dementia or Alzheimer.

When ageing relatives are no longer able to care for themselves it can be a challenging time for families. Unlike how things were done in the past where families and the community worked together to take care of the elderly, that job is now increasingly undertaken by health care institutions. Elder health care is rapidly becoming a booming business. Similar to other businesses, elder care institutions focus more on profits and the bottom line but less on their frail and fragile clients. Hence the elderly are often victims of substandard health care services due to an absence of proper monitoring and regulations.

Earlier this year it was reported that over 10,000 Canadians were abused in the elder care industry. That is a staggering amount of abuses occurring annually in these facilities. (Refer to: Renewed focus on seniors violence after 91-year-old woman dies following fight and  CareHomes_TenThousandAbused) Elder care facilities that are supposed to be safe havens for the most vulnerable among us are failing them. A case in point is the recent ruling to take away the licence from a retirement home. This underscores the dire need to improve the standards that govern health care facilities. Clearly there is a need to regulate and monitor how elder care facilities operate. (Refer to: TheStar_RetirementHomes)

Like everything else, care facilities don’t provide identical services. Facilities are graded and the varying costs are intended to reflect where that institution fits with regard to level of service. Costs will vary depending on whether the facility is rated from high-end to mediocre. This raises the question of affordability for seniors of modest income. Seniors who cannot afford to pay those hefty charges have to opt for less expensive care facilities. Yet, many troubling incidents of abuse and violence have occurred in high-end facilities. Many of the victims also have mobility issues. Recent reports have revealed that even high-end facilities that have had a good reputation are now under scrutiny regarding the safety and care of the elderly in their care. Those high costs charged by institutions are not justified. It seems to be mostly about corporate profits.

Unfortunately, there are not many options available to an abused elder when unpleasant or violent incidents occur. In most jurisdictions victims can seek recourse through a ‘complaint line’. Providing a complaint line is a small step in addressing this serious issue. It is not an adequate mechanism to address what is becoming a very serious obstacle in protecting our elders. Adequate regulations and criteria should govern how elder care facilities should operate. These regulations and criteria have to be formulated by a regulatory body such as a task force, ombudsman or watchdog. If the criteria are not met then clients should not have to deal with stifling red tape to seek redress. Speedy legal justice should be embedded within the criteria.

While concerns focus on the standards at facilities the role of family members is important. Relatives need to check up on their elders, especially those suffering from isolation or mental health problems. There are also too many instances where dementia sufferers wander away from the facility and are later found dead.  The last federal budget introduced the 2013 Canadian Action Plan which allows a ‘Caregiver Tax Credit Supporting Caregivers’ for a family member with physical or mental impairments who prefers to be cared for in their own home. ( Refer to:

The 2013 Canadian Action Plan tax relief option is for those who prefer to live out their lives in the comfort of their own homes. It is a good start as that option recognizes that home care is a more effective way to reduce health care costs. Moreover it can quell concerns about the type of care provided by some care homes. While it is helpful, it hardly covers the financial burden of hiring a personal caregiver not to mention the physical and emotional burden on relatives who are still in the workforce. Caring for elderly relatives suffering from isolation, mobility issues or serious mental health problems presents a big challenge for families. Providing adequate care for our elders will become an even greater challenge with the rapidly expanding ageing demographic in a world that is still wrestling with an uncertain economic future.

It is essential that effective standards be put in place to stop the rampant abuses that are increasing in elder care facilities. Society`s attitude toward our vulnerable aged and infirm citizens needs to undergo a dramatic transformation.

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New Realities of Seniors Health Care

For decades we have been led to believe that Canada’s health care system was designed to guarantee availability of universal health care to all citizens, irrespective of economic status.

Since the implementation of universal health care, the overall population has been growing steadily. In hindsight, it appears that sustainability of the universal health care plan and changing demographics were not adequately addressed at the time of implementation.  As a result, we now have a universal health care system that is struggling to adjust to the realities of health care demands to support an expanding elderly population in a stagnant economy.

The new realities of health care for the elderly are related to how health services are provided in an environment of ongoing fiscal cutbacks. Many provinces are scaling back the number of procedures previously included in the annual health check for healthy adults.  This could be a disastrous move since annual health checks are seen as a preventive form of health care to detect certain illnesses and diseases. Refer to these links:

The scaling back of certain procedures suggests that the elderly will have to pay for required tests that are no longer included with annual checkups. This option to pay should only apply to those seniors who can afford to pay for these preventive procedures. It is a well-known fact that a staggering range of complex and chronic health issues accompany old age. Surely we are not reverting back to a system in which the quality of patient care will depend upon the financial capacity to pay. Could the idea of free health care services for all continue to be financed with the ballooning elderly population?

The pain from fiscal cutbacks combined with a growing elderly population is also being felt in some long term care facilities and home care services. We are all too familiar with the disturbing reports of poor care and abuse in nursing home facilities for the elderly. While there are some good care facilities, there have been an increasing number of disturbing cases of elder abuse at some facilities.

It appears that some facilities are operated with too few staff in an effort to cut costs. This situation can only be improved with public funding, or the client will be forced to pay more for an acceptable level of care.  The reality is that, without additional funding, we will have to move toward more privatization of health care. How many of the elderly will be able to afford the costs for additional private care?

A modest increase in funding for health care was included in the 2013 Canadian Action Plan. This plan also recognized the value that home care plays in supporting good quality of life for frail and vulnerable seniors by allowing expanded tax relief for home care.  This approach to providing care is seen as a more effective way to reduce health care costs and quell concerns about the type of care provided by some care homes.  The tax relief enables health care to be shifted from a costly institution to the more affordable comfort of a person’s home.  Even with the tax breaks, not many of the elderly will be able to afford the costs for home care services.  Refer to these links:

It would not be fair to have a discussion about universal health care without acknowledging the untiring efforts by Tommy Douglas to end health care inequalities. Starting with the introduction of Medicare, great strides have been made to realize the vision of this great Canadian.  It is deplorable that 50 years later the vision of Tommy Douglas for universal health care would encounter so many obstacles or would be in jeopardy of reverting back to more privatized health care.

The introduction of universal health care was intended to make sure no one is faced with financial ruin if they got sick.  We in Canada cannot  expect to have every minor health issue covered by our health care system — the ‘reality’ is that such an expectation is not sustainable! Didn’t any of the social planners foresee that the ballooning elderly population and the on-going financial and economic challenges would continue to afflict the quality of life of the elderly?

These are the new realities seniors with modest incomes will have to face as they struggle to balance their daily living costs with the additional costs of adequate health care.

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Seniors Online

Learning how to use a computer and the Internet is bringing benefits to the lives of many seniors. These seniors are not the baby boomers whose participation in the workplace coincided with the proliferation of computer technology. These are older seniors who saw computers as complicated machines. They seemed to believe computers were too difficult understand, perhaps irrelevant and not enhancing their lives. While in the workplace they relied on phones, typewriters, fax machines and ‘snail mail’ as it is frequently labelled nowadays. They didn’t recognize the role that that computers and the internet would play in shaping their personal lives and also how it would transform how business would be conducted. And since  most of them didn’t use the computer in the workplace they didn’t see the need for it at home. Retirement, however, has brought a significant change in the attitude of seniors to the digital world’.

Seniors who may have resisted computers in the past are now finding the digital world can be a stimulating and rewarding experience in retirement. Retirement is a time when many of them lose their social connections and sense of purpose. A significant number of them suffer from health problems related to social isolation. They gradually became more interested in the digital world and how the Internet can easily facilitate communications between family and close friends who had moved away. They were also impressed with the easy access to all kinds of health information, particularly related to the social isolation they were experiencing in their golden years.  They observed how younger relatives were entirely comfortable with current technology and various modes ways of communication, e.g. e-mailing, chat and social networking. Technology is rapidly changing all our lives both at a personal and business level.

Seniors realized that the digital world could bring many benefits to their lives. This new technology is something that phone calls and letters could not compete in many ways. The post office can go ‘on strike’ but the Internet doesn’t. But the Internet can go down briefly due to technical problems and not for weeks on end. It is also clear the internet was bringing people closer together in a stronger way than the previous mail and phone options … it bridges the distance between people much better than phones and regular mail. That is not to suggest that regular mail will be disappearing anytime soon. It is also more economical to use the Internet as opposed to travelling long distances to connect with loved ones.

In order to enjoy benefits of the digital world seniors had to learn how to use computers and to manoeuvre around cyberspace to connect loved ones and to use search options to seek out useful information. These seniors needed to be trained in order to reach a level of computer literacy that would allow them to enjoy the benefits this new technology could bring to their lives. Computer training for seniors needs to be designed to fit their needs.  It is important to find out how seniors want to use the Internet and provide specialized training for them. Some seniors do become stressed out and befuddled with the new technology particularly when there are technical glitches. Basic training can range from familiarizing seniors with the keyboard and mouse, creating and sending e-mail, searching the Internet, playing games, reading books online, using SKYPE or other chat options, online banking and much more. These activities will keep their brains sharp and help  improve their mental alertness.

Training sessions should include how to use laptops, tablets and various software that are more user-friendly … that reduces the learning curve not to mention possible stress. When it comes to computer training the main objective of many seniors is to maintain communications with family and friends. They also want to have quick and easy access to information about current news, weather and health issues. Hence the training should focus on those preferences. Seniors can also take advantage of opportunities for free computer training at community centres and libraries. Volunteers who provide in-house training sessions to those residing in senior residences focus on the preferences of their elderly trainees and achieve a good degree of success.  Seniors are also finding that exposure to the digital world through training videos is not as intimidating as they believed it would be. (Refer to the training videos links at the end.)

An important aspect of training seniors that must not be overlooked is to alert them of ‘scams and frauds’ that specifically target seniors. They must be made aware that not all information on the web is accurate or trustworthy.  Seniors also need to be acquainted with the need for password protection and be familiarized with other online risks related to financial scams and websites offering romantic hookups to lonely seniors. Refer to:  “Scams Against Seniors: Don’t Get Fleeced Out Of Your Golden Years” at:

Longevity has become a fact of life as we are living longer than ever and that brings with it all kinds of health issues related to ageing.  These changes have brought a new set of challenges for seniors who have to adapt in order to enjoy the quality of life’ they desire. This segment of the population has made great  contributions to the freedom and liberty we enjoy. The challenge is:  how to provide a ‘quality of life’ many seniors should have but don’t? When looking at ‘quality of life’ society seems to focus on more sustainability of pensions and health care costs and the impact on government finances. Governments should place more emphasis on other important aspects of the actual ‘quality of life’ of seniors such as benefits offered by the digital world. Those benefits can have a positive impact on the health of seniors.  Embracing the digital world can lessen the depression and other emotional and physical health problems associated with social isolation.

Seniors should not pass up the many health benefits of participating in the new technology.  Nonetheless, it should be acknowledged that the digital world should not be seen as a cure-all for social isolation and the debilitating health problems that longevity usually brings.  Hopefully more exposure to the digital world can transform ‘social isolation’ into ‘social inclusion’ and that  will have a positive impact on the lives of  seniors during their golden years.



Teaching seniors computer skills

How To Teach A Senior To Use A Computer

Are “Wired Seniors” Sitting Ducks?

Training video links:

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The Entrepreneurial Senior

Retirement used to be about a time when we look forward to enjoying a more relaxed lifestyle after decades of slogging away in the workforce. It was envisioned by many retirees as a time to enjoy a life of independence, to spend more time with family and friends, travelling and engaging in activities that gave them enjoyment and satisfaction.

Alas, this is a time of great malaise and financial instability in most world economies. That vulnerability has had a negative impact on retirement savings of those looking forward to enjoying their golden years.  Many retirees, to their dismay, have to come to terms with the fact that their retirement dreams either have to be set aside or abandoned. These retirees are mostly baby boomers. They either have to remain in the work place longer than planned or be creative in generating additional income to replenish their retirement savings, often depleted by poor investment advice. They have become The Old and The Restless” ….. restless to strike out on their own and become entrepreneurs and address anxieties that they might outlive their pension.  This scenario appears to be the catalyst that is giving birth to the surge of entrepreneurial seniors’.

The entrepreneurial surge is a remarkable development occurring in the baby boomer generation. This rapidly expanding demographic is frequently described as being more healthy and wealthy, and much better educated than the previous generation of seniors. Sadly, not all baby boomers have accumulated considerable wealth and many are burdened by debt. A significant number carry heavy debt loads such as mortgages and other debts into their retirement years. Some also have to support unemployed offspring in the ongoing recession. This situation has led to the growth in ‘seniors entrepreneurship’.

Becoming an entrepreneur is an attractive option to supplement inadequate pension savings and also to satisfy a desire to becoming an independent business person. Some seniors tend to be drawn more towards  service-oriented projects such as care-giving, home-help services, or beautician services that don’t require a huge financial investment to get started. Other retirees establish a start-up business that requires more capital investment for selling a high-end product or service. It  is important to ensure the business venture is viable and is not in a ‘dying industry’ or the business will have a short life cycle. The digital age, with computers and information technology, has created numerous business opportunities for aspiring entrepreneurs. To their credit, a  significant number of boomers are well-versed in the technology and can take advantage of the opportunities it spawns.

Establishing a business is a major undertaking at any stage of life from both a financial and personal perspective. There are daunting’ challenges’ but also great ‘rewards’. In setting up a business most entrepreneurs have to make ‘sacrifices’, especially in the initial phase.  Budding entrepreneurs should take note that many start-ups fail within the first two years of a business. Some entrepreneurs have great enthusiasm but lack  business acumen. It is essential to be disciplined and make sacrifices by working harder than you ever have to achieve success.

Aspiring entrepreneurs must become well-versed in accounting, income tax laws, various government regulations for small business, and very important, satisfying and maintaining your customer base. Other challenges include developing a good business plan, solidifying access to additional capital, improving financial literacy to make sense of financial statements, dealing with suppliers, maintaining relationships with other entrepreneurs, hiring good staff and, also crucial, finding and keeping customers to ensure the long-term success of the business.

Apart from financial considerations, there are other reasons why seniors choose to become entrepreneurs …  they can finally make their own business decisions!  The idea of entrepreneurship takes shape in their mind and the desire to set up a business becomes an attractive option to ensure a stable source of income and create a needed product or service. Whatever the reasons behind the decision to become entrepreneurs, it seems that the fragile economy and ‘longevity’ of seniors have become a driving force fuelling this remarkable development. They are following their ‘passion’ but in order to be successful that passion must be tempered by focussing on the bottom line.

Clearly, establishing your own business can have multiple rewards. Setting up a business is not only about money which is the primary goal.  In fact, successful entrepreneurs get personal satisfaction by fulfilling the needs of other people through the services and products they offer. One of the best rewards aside from the success of the business is the ‘feeling of pride’ that the new entrepreneur enjoys with all that they have achieved. So to those who are “The Old and Restless” and considering entrepreneurship the message is …. it is never too late to re-invent yourself in order to make a contribution to your community and fulfill dreams of running your own business.


Below are helpful links on setting up a business:

Starting Your Business

Starting a Business in Canada – Make sure you are ready for entrepreneurship

Guide for Canadian Small Business – Guide for Starting a Business

Understanding financial statements

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Deferred Pension Benefits – Who Really Benefits?

The changes to pension benefits proposed  by the Harper government have left many of us with a troubling  question – “Who really benefits from these changes?” According to the proposed legislation, the purpose of these changes is to put OAS on a sustainable track to meet the challenge of the ageing population. The changes will affect  CPP (Canada Pension Plan), OAS  (Old Age Security) and GIS (Guaranteed Income Supplement).

The legislation is intended to head off the financial challenges associated with our expanding senior’s population and also to help balance the budget. These changes focus mainly on the age eligibility rules that defer pension benefits – the eligibility age will be raised from 65 to 67 and benefits will increase. This paints a more positive image of the financial benefits future recipients will have by raising the age from 65 to 67 and increasing benefits. However, many commentators have argued the government is ‘kicking the can down the road’ by making the changes effective 2023.  Could it be that the Harper government does not want to alienate a certain cohort of voters by this deferral? The changes will impact those currently  under the age of 54 who will be retiring in about 10 years.

Although the deferral of CPP benefits is optional for seniors who qualify, the recipients who choose to take benefits at the qualifying age of 60 will have drastically reduced benefits.  However, if seniors  delay their benefits until age 67 they will have an advantage in terms of increased benefits payments. It appears, the government is waving a carrot to those who are considering taking CPP earlier than age 67. As mentioned above, deferring the implementation of the CPP changes for 2023 will definitely impact those who are currently middle-aged – i.e. under the age of 54.  This group will find that raising the age of eligibility by two years will affect their financial plans hence will be forced to re-organize their long-term finances to secure their own pensions.

Of greater concern are the changes to OAS and GIS benefits. The deferral of OAS and GIS will have the most dramatic impact on those who qualify for these benefits — i.e. recipients of OAS and GIS are in the lower income bracket. They will have to wait for an additional 2 years to qualify for OAS and GIS benefits. Under the proposed legislation the seniors in this category will face financial hardship if  OAS and GIS benefits are deferred.  Will this vulnerable group be pushed into more poverty? Strangely enough some seniors in a higher income bracket  who were eligible for the OAS but never bothered to claim these benefits will automatically receive these benefits without applying.  Why was this change introduced if it will cost the government more?  Refer to this link for more details:

While the OAS pensions changes are an attempt to reflect the changing demographics there isn’t much consideration to the fact that there will come a time when age-related health issues will burden health services. True enough many in the baby boomer cohort have embraced a more healthy lifestyle and are expected to live longer but as we age we also become more susceptible to more serious health issues associated with ageing. What about those retirees from high risk professions (e.g. manual labour, manufacturing, mining etc.)  where injuries or serious long-term health problems are commonplace?  Will they be around long enough to gain from the increased benefits that have been deferred? Will the health care system cover the health costs associated with illnesses caused by the type of professions they had? How long will the health care system be in place for low income seniors if the economy continues to stagnate? Will seniors on modest incomes eventually have to resort to costly private health coverage?

In this discussion about pension benefits the ‘gold-plated pension’ benefits for MPs should not be overlooked… that tab is picked up by taxpayers! There was a token attempt to convey the impression of fairness by the Harper government to spread the pain to MPs but it is not very convincing. When we look at how our pensions stack up against those of politicians we have to ask – “In what other profession can a worker expect to receive a minimum of $35,000 annual pension that MPs are entitled to receive after working for only 6 years?”  Further, these politicians usually make sure to establish lucrative business contacts that eventually lead to well-paying positions in corporations or other government agencies after leaving politics. Refer to this link:

Since seniors will have to remain longer in the workplace an obvious outcome of this deferral is the unemployment spike affecting younger workers  – even today younger workers are vying with older experienced workers for jobs. Will there be sufficient jobs for the younger generation with the increased presence of seniors in the workplace? The most recent census data confirmed the demographic shift in our population distribution and gives sufficient notice to both government, private enterprise and social agencies that there could be challenging times ahead if better policies are not put in place to deal with the implications of the changing demographics. Refer to the 2012 Census Profile released by Statistics Canada ( )

The projected demographics are expected to become a reality and younger workers will have a challenging time finding work. They will not benefit from the deferral. Younger workers will have to finance their own pension benefits in a tightening economic environment since ’the can has been kicked down the road’. Hence the question remains – “Who really benefits from these changes?”

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Transition from full-time work to retirement

By Francine Van, Guest Contributor

Francine Vanderbolt

Francine Van

How does one transition from working full-time to retirement? This is a question I pondered in the months preceding my own retirement. We feel we are working out of necessity when we are working fulltime yet the period of transition into retirement has taught me there are both tangible (e.g. money) and intangible benefits to work.

There is now a need to work by choice and, yes, some of it is still related to actual financial needs. I find work is generally linked to a sense of being vital and also being a participating member of our society. Retirement is sometimes a nasty word with negative implications inferring you are no longer a contributing member of society – you are more likely to start to feel invisible and perhaps not having much self-worth.

The structure and schedule of work is a motivator to satisfy that need to stay busy, the sense of being valued and a reason to get up in the morning. Yes, volunteer work is helpful but does not totally fulfill this need for me, nor does helping an aged parent or being with your grandchildren. I speak only for myself and not for others although I realize this could work for some. As the children grow and become young adults there is less need for the grandparent. So, again you will find yourself in transition. I feel it is important at this point in life to find your passion … to listen to that little whisper in your mind that has been there all along and that you never listened to before and which slipped silently into your subconscious. As retirement approaches that whisper intrudes ever so quietly to remind you that there is still opportunity and purpose to this phase of your life.

I am becoming a real advocate for pursuing my passion and have found lots of reading material that substantiates it. I have also encountered lots of people who are taking on new second careers or starting a business of choice as an entrepreneur. I would love to hear more stories from anyone out there that has pursued this. I am still finding my way in this regard – still nervous about the rejection that comes with it and with stretching my soul, going just that little bit outside of my comfort zone. I want to enjoy this time of life. At this point I am changing jobs again …(smile)…and feel a total freedom that I am no longer concerned with employment insurance benefits so I can change jobs as frequently as I like with no consequence as my employment is now by choice! A little healthy stress just lets you know you are still alive.

I continue to pursue my photography interests in hopes of sharing and expanding this creative activity. I keep watching for miracles every day …. for opportunities that come along, great opportunities such as when I met a stranger on a bus tour who happens to know web design and can help develop my website. My last job after retirement taught me some retail expertise including how to talk to strangers, to be open to another’s energy, and to sharpen my intuitive skills. I think everything we experience through various phases of life shapes the path we walk during our golden years and helps us to embrace our destiny whether it is one we have chosen for ourselves or one that has been thrust upon us.

Retirement is a journey we take by ourselves and hopefully we will learn to make lemonade with the lemons life sometimes throws at us!

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Do Seniors get respect from the financial industry?

Nowadays it seems that Rodney Dangerfield’s trademark phrase  “I don’t get no respect” can be appropriately applied to the everyday lives of many seniors. While much attention and focus is placed on the emotional, physical and financial abuse by family members there are other areas where seniors experience a different type of abuse that tends to go undetected. That abuse should probably come under the caption ‘getting no respect’! Seniors are treated with disrespect at the checkout counter doing grocery shopping, getting a seat on public transit, greedy relatives, home renovation scams, substandard service by health care providers and yes, dealing with banks and the financial industry. It is the latter that is of particular concern to seniors, especially those surviving on modest retirement incomes.

For example, about a year ago a bank fraud was revealed where 31 seniors  across Canada were defrauded of almost $206,000 by an employee at a charter bank. (Refer to this link:–bank-employee-accused-of-stealing-from-accounts )

Another example is ‘reverse mortgages’. Seniors who have paid off their mortgage should be wary of the ‘reverse mortgage’ offered by banks. While this option might appear to be appealing it can have negative unforeseen consequences with respect to your net worth. Many seniors might not understand the implications associated with reverse mortgages. In particular the interest rate for a ‘regular mortgage versus a reverse mortgage’ and the regulations governing reverse mortgage. (For more information on reverse mortgages you can refer to this link: )

There is a more troubling aspect of financial abuse that at first glance appears to be a benign issue. It is related to mediocre  financial service and inadequate advice from financial advisors and financial planners in the financial industry. It appears that seniors, particularly those of modest incomes, have a lot less value in the eyes of financial advisors than those seniors with substantial financial worth or even younger clients. One must question whether these advisors provide accurate or expert advice to seniors. Surely when dispensing financial advice to seniors there should be far less emphasis on investing in high-risk speculative products at their late stage of life.

More emphasis should be on recommending dependable products where capital is protected. Younger clients have more time on their hands to recoup losses incurred from investing in high-risk products but seniors do not. It should not be overlooked that high-risk products tend to have management fees and other hidden charges.  These products also provide financial advisors and brokers with generous commissions.  In addition to inept financial skills of financial advisors, vulnerable investors have seen their nest eggs whittled by fraud and mismanagement.

Financial advisors seem to be of the opinion or assume that many seniors are not very financially literate hence they don’t take the time to give proper advice on how to handle their retirement portfolios.  Many of these advisors used unfamiliar financial jargon to communicate to clients.  That behaviour toward any client is discourteous, condescending and offensive. The encounters many seniors have with staff in the financial industry also indicate that advisors are not as knowledgeable as we expect them be. The lesson here is definitely ‘buyer beware’. Providing inferior or misleading financial advice is of great concern to all clients given the current volatile economic climate and concerns about inflation. More focus should be put on delivering better quality advice to protect the retirement income of seniors and, for that matter, all investors.

The use of Rodney Dangerfield’s comedic reference to “no respect” is not intended to trivialize or downplay the seriousness of any form of elder abuse.  The idea of ‘no respect’ is intended to show how subtle forms of elder abuse inflicted by non-family members can affect the financial well-being of seniors.  Even more important, the deficient and unsatisfactory financial advice from advisors in both the chartered banks or private investment firms is a matter that requires closer scrutiny.

When managing their hard-earned investments seniors need to become ever more financially literate  in their dealings with advisors who may or may not be skilled/experienced or well-trained.  Given the chaotic economic situation all over the globe we have to question whether it is in our best interest to even listen to the advice of these ‘financial advisors’. While greater transparency is needed in the financial industry with regard to fees and commissions, the issue of unprofessional behaviour and substandard advice given to seniors needs to addressed. Otherwise seniors who are encouraged to invest in high-risk products might find themselves chastened as they see their portfolios shrink.

Hope you are intrigued by this post and are inspired to pay closer attention to your investments and also be more wary of the advice dispensed by financial advisors. Shall look forward to your comments about your experiences as a senior dealing with the banking industry and financial advisors.


NOTE – Check this federal government link to access information on elder abuse and various services for seniors:

Elder Abuse Awareness


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The Stinky Side of 50!

Special contribution by Francine Van

The details we were never told, and now I know why……….

Francine Van

We join the golden movement with hope and optimism of new futures to come.  We believe there will be less worries, more freedom, obligations of choice rather than necessity, fun, and finally a sense of peace.  Well, OK, don’t hold your breath…..the truth is:— You never really retire, it is an illusion to get you to change jobs without pay for family…you become a babysitter, chauffeur, personal shopper, hairdresser, cleaning lady, etc. etc. …need I go on? Almost forgot ….. amidst all this I am trying to get my photography project off the ground!

— You cannot possibly take all the vitamins recommended for your age, (they will make you smell or give you gas).  Just take the hormones to stay out of jail

— Budget on the anti-aging creams and makeup …when they say too good to be true, they mean it …except get the strong hold hairspray for that spot called the ‘Aruba’ on the top back of your head, it shows now …did you notice!

— When you find yourself repeating a lot, remember when you are not talking to your parents or grandchildren

— When your mom says her lunch was a chocolate bar, it’s ok …she made it to over fifty

— Don’t drink all eight glasses of water recommended or you won’t get any sleep

— Exercise your butt, it flattens …hmmmm!

— The coffee shops become the place of choice rather than the bars, too much wine and no one picks you up when you fall off the bar stool.

And lastly, although I could go on, cancel all those over fifty joke emails, magazine subscriptions, and any reminders that are self-defeating. Denial is a wonderful thing and soon like your parents, you will forget.

As Mark Twain so accurately put it:  “Against the assault of laughter nothing can stand.”  Shall look forward to your comments so that we can all remember laughing is great medicine to get us through life.

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Pension Benefits and Increasing Seniors Demographic

An increasing number of Canadians  are becoming concerned about their CPP benefits in light of the global economic turmoil. Among the greatest concerns are the prospect of a double dip recession, increased fiscal constraints, and a shrinking labour force of younger workers.  If there is a double dip recession governments might impose more fiscal constraints so there is the likelihood that much needed services and benefits for seniors will be reduced or eliminated.  The increase in the seniors demographic combined within a shrinking economy and a predicted decline in the labour force of younger workers will present a challenge to government revenues. This gloomy forecast does not bode well for the sustainability of the pension system. With recent statistics indicating there will be a slowing in the growth of the labour force there are serious concerns that the present pension system will not meet the needs of future retirees. Alarm bells about Canada’s fiscal health have been raised by Kevin Page, the current parliamentary budget officer, who “calculates that the provincial and federal governments’ fiscal structures aren’t sustainable over the long term due to an aging population and current economic trends.” The report presents a troubling financial picture for Canada in the long term if fiscal constraints are not put in place.

That the workforce will have to support a substantial number of older Canadians dependent on CPP benefits is cause for concern since that indicates our current pension system is clearly not sustainable in a fragile economy. A reduced workforce cannot  generate enough economic activity to cope with the pension needs of retirees. In a shrinking economy some seniors will  have to work past retirement age and compete for jobs with younger workers. Hence we have a scenario where many Canadians, whether retired or working, will undoubtedly experience a substantial drop in living standards. As deficits increase government spending will have to be curtailed and everyone, including seniors, will have to pay more taxes. A pension option put forward during the last federal election by Federal Minister Jim Flaherty’s is a ‘pooled pension plan’. This option, however, has not gained much traction.  (Check this link for full details of the ‘pooled pensions plan: Minister Flaherty’s model or theory  is not clearly understood or accepted by Canadians. This ‘pooled pension’ option will be controlled by private enterprise and also the banks.  There is concern that there will not be adequate banking and financial regulations in place to administer this type of pension plan. Concerns are driven by the recent economic turbulence that the absence of adequate regulations wrought on economies around the globe. That devastation is attributed mostly to a lack of proper regulations and oversight in the financial industry. It brings to mind the unfortunate situation of what happened to the pension benefits of many Nortel employees in Canada. There should not be a repeat of a Nortel type fiasco. It is also a necessary part of the equation that those in the labour force must earn a living wage to participate in this option. Will future workers have to rely on erratic and unstable income from their private pension plans and/or RRSPs with this ‘pooled pension plan’ option? At the moment we are witness to storm clouds gathering on the horizon for many European countries and will have to accept that we in Canada are not immune to another economic downturn. Although many governments around the world are struggling to contain their deficits and stabilize their economies there is a strong possibility that most developed countries are about to sink back into a much deeper recession. There will be a  huge wealth gap as our middle class disappears. And if businesses are to survive in the long term proper planning should be in place for an organized transfer of skills and knowledge to younger workers as there will be a massive gap in skills and knowledge as seniors exit the labour force. A fragile economy will undoubtedly impact various services seniors depend on, the most important of which is health care.  And as the volume of our aging population increases we are likely to see the cost of health care services  along with other necessities rise dramatically in an economy that has a shrinking labour force.  Our governments have to recognize that serious economic and social problems will result if this combined challenge of a seniors tsunami and a fragile economy are not addressed in a calm, creative and balanced manner. A long term plan to address this serious challenge is imperative. ——————————————– Federal Government links: a).  Is Canada Ready for an Aging Population?   b).  Canada’s Aging Population: Seizing the Opportunity”

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Pension Reform and the Federal Election 2011

On April’s Fools day there was a skit on CBC radio with Mary Walsh (actress, comedian and social activist) as the host who announced the formation of a new political party. Venerable and well-known Canadian actor Gordon Pinsent had the task of announcing the formation this new political party for seniors … the Sage Party! As the leader of this ’Sage Party’ Gordon Pinsent explained that this party intended to give a ‘voice to seniors’ as this growing segment of the population, our seniors, are not being served properly. Although this was merely a spoof created especially for our entertainment on April Fools Day there was an oblique message that seniors should become politically active. In the spoof Gordon Pinsent extolled the ‘wisdom of elders’ and noted that although seniors are becoming a ‘huge voting block’ most of the issues that matter to them are not addressed seriously. Hence the creating of this new political party specifically for seniors.

Of course this was just a parody created especially for April Fools day but the underlying message a viewer got was that seniors’ issues and concerns should be central to the current political debate. For those of you who missed the airing of the spoof you may check this link for the podcast:

While there was much light-hearted banter in this spoof it underscored the fact our politicians need to focus more on seniors’ issues and pension reform. A substantial number in this demographic, especially those without adequate pension incomes, will face significant challenges due to inflation and cost of living increases. Many retirees in this group were unable to purchase a significant amount of RRSPs due to their low earnings during their working lives. They are uncertain as to whether the various election promises on pension reforms will be adequate or sustainable. It is time for politicians to come clean and provide more details on how they plan to keep and fund their promises. The pension reform issue, along with major concerns about adequate health care and housing, are all important issues for this segment of the population that may well motivate and encourage them to go cast their vote.

The platform and promises of the various parties are largely identical. The differences are found in how to achieve what is being promised. Regrettably, but not surprising, information is not forthcoming on how to find the funding needed to realize these promises. This link provides a comparison of how the platforms of the major political parties stack up on ‘retirement security’:
(Refer to the links at the end for detailed information on where the political parties stand on various issues.)

As the election campaign is picking up steam our leaders are earnestly selling their plans for existing pensions and also future plans to ensure that future retirees will have pensions on which they can survive. More than ever pensioners on modest incomes are struggling to deal with increased cost of living as that impacts what their monthly ‘basket of goods’ will or will not include. While pensioners are concerned about what our politicians plan to do with CPP, OAS and GIS benefit many are very tuned into challenges faced by all Canadians in this uncertain economy.

We have a lot of shortcomings socially, culturally and economically that need to be addressed by whichever political party is in power. For example, there are challenges such as increased poverty levels, child care needs, homelessness and lack of affordable housing, women’s issues, First Nations issues, health care challenges, relief to caregivers of elders, a shrinking workforce, the environment…. and the list goes on. Yet we also recall that at the height of the recession generous bailouts were readily given to the very sectors of society that created the financial crisis in the first place, i.e. large corporations and the financial industry. Ordinary working people were not given similar consideration.

Pensioners and those about to retire need to become more engaged and better acquainted with the pension reforms being promoted by politicians. As a matter of fact we would be remiss if we don’t include younger workers in this conversation about pension reforms since many don’t have pension plans in place at their workplace. Think carefully about what all politicians are trying to sell with regard to pension reform.

Let us remind our politicians that they must look beyond the wishes or demands of the political lobbyists and corporate elites and instead develop policies to ensure all Canadians can look forward to retire with dignity and not see it as a ticket to the land of poverty!


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Thoughts from one Disillusioned Canadian Voter

Special contribution by I. Aagaard

Today I discussed the upcoming federal election with a friend of mine. We talked about the growing voter apathy and bounced around possible reasons for this most serious problem.

I am in the wine business, so taking a quick look at our current political parties and their leaders and compare them to common Continue reading

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Art Therapy for seniors

Art is a powerful and effective form of communication that stimulates thoughts and emotions in the artist and also those viewing art works. It has proven to have tremendous benefits and has increasingly become a therapeutic method for enhancing health and well-being. When used for therapeutic purposes it is referred to as Art Therapy. It has become an accepted therapy to help people with alleviating emotional stress or physical pain, neurological disorders and releasing traumatic experiences. In particular, art therapy is now commonly being used to address neurological ailments in the rapidly expanding seniors’ population.

There are several definitions of art therapy, but most of them fall into one of two general categories. (Refer to The first involves a belief in the inherent healing power of the creative process of art making. This view embraces the idea that the process of making art is therapeutic and this process is sometimes referred to as Art as Therapy.  Doing art is seen as an opportunity to express one’s self imaginatively, authentically, and spontaneously, an experience that can lead eventually to personal fulfillment, emotional reparation, and recovery. Some retirees may have problems dealing with difficult social realities due to neurological disorders. Art Therapy can be included in the treatment for these disorders. It can have the added dimension of boosting confidence during the transition from a hectic work life to a more subdued time at retirement.

The second definition of art therapy is based on the idea that art is a means of symbolic communication. This approach, often referred to as art psychotherapy, emphasizes the products—drawings, paintings, sculpture, handwork and other art expressions—as helpful in communicating issues, emotions, and conflicts. This approach can also be applied to various age groups suffering from neurological disorders.

The expanding seniors population and increased longevity will bring into focus the number of seniors and retirees suffering from ailments associated with aging, namely physical and emotional distress.  Art Therapy has become an invaluable tool in helping those retirees afflicted by these health issues. Not many of those who are approaching retirement  envision a life suffering from ailments such as Alzheimer’s and other dementias, low self-esteem, depression, addictions, stress, anxiety or social isolation. Most, if not all of us, have to be prepared to deal with some of these health challenges in our golden years.

Art Therapy healing is normally done by Art Therapists. Most Art Therapists are licensed professionals and are required to undergo several years of higher education that focuses on psychotherapy. They also have a solid background in various art forms and expression. They work with children, adolescents, and adults and provide services to individuals, couples, families, groups, and communities. In the case of retirees the Art Therapist can harness artistic skills and talents that they have been unaware of and have no clue how to use those talents and skills. It is here that the art therapist can contribute to the well-being of retirees or seniors if they are able to identify that these skills and talents exist. Art Therapists can play a significant role in improving the lives of clients they serve.

According to an article titled “Creative Rehabilitation: Art Therapy for the Elderly” published at Elder Caring  Inc. (

“The therapy, which began as treatment for severely emotionally disturbed children and adults, provides a safe and structured setting to help participants express their thoughts or feelings in a verbal or non-verbal way. Drawing, painting, or discussing art are a few examples of the therapeutic interventions. In a long-term-care setting, an art therapy program strives to improve the quality of life.”

The above article at Elder Caring Inc. accurately sums up the purpose and benefits of Art Therapy. Art Therapy can be a remedy or treatment to help in the rehabilitation of those suffering from some kind of trauma, illness or personal crisis in their golden years. These golden years are given more significance as retirees have to find ways to keep active both mentally and physically to enjoy this major milestone in life. More attention is being paid to the emotional health of retirees due to the rapidly growing seniors’ population and also increased longevity.

While art therapy may involve learning skills or art techniques, the emphasis is generally first on developing and expressing images that come from inside the person, rather than those he or she sees in the outside world. It is an experience that allows troubled seniors to connect with their inner feelings through any form of art. In particular, residents of long-term care facilities who suffer from neurological disorders can benefit from this therapy. Even healthy retirees without mental health issues can also benefit from Art Therapy especially if they have no activities planned for their transition to retirement. They have a lot of time on their hands and can find this period of life isolating, depressing and detached from the world around them.

For seniors with neurological disorders, emotional and mental illness this is a challenging time both for them and their families. Art Therapy is being given greater consideration as an option to improve the quality of life for seniors suffering from ailments associated with ageing. This therapy is being embraced as it can be a useful tool in maintaining overall good health of seniors. Another positive aspect of Art Therapy for seniors is that it will minimize the strains on the health care system and other social services.

The intent of our post is to raise awareness about the emotional and neurological disorders that some retirees face and reassure them that there are options available to help them through what can be a difficult time.  It has to be acknowledged that each of us is unique and we age differently. One solution does not fit all. However, one of the accredited options for improving  the life of seniors is Art Therapy. Art Therapy could open up a new world for them outside of their ailments. And who knows? Some of the retirees in this category might turn out to be the next Picasso, Monet, Van Gogh, or modern day impressionist artist.

We will leave you with this memorable quote from Hillary Rodham Clinton (former US First Lady, Senator, and Secretary of State):

“Some of our most powerful works of art have been produced by older Americans—by hands that have engaged in years of hard work, eyes that have witnessed decades of change, and hearts that have felt a lifetime of emotions. Our whole society benefits when older Americans use their talents and experiences to become involved in the arts as creators, teachers, mentors, volunteers, and audiences.”


Some links to check:
i)  Refer to  ART RORAIMA  to view the art works of a retiree
ii) Check out an earlier blog  How to Find Passion in Retirement submitted by Françoise Duranleau, a guest contributor who found great passion in her retirement.

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How To Find Passion In Retirement

 Special contribution by Françoise Duranleau

Nearly seven years ago I retired at age 60. I always enjoyed teaching. However dealing with the administrators had become unbearable because of recent changes in the school board and an all-female administration. I stopped teaching in the middle of the school year and I had been counting the days until my 60th birthday and retirement.

Ten years before retirement I developed a new hobby and passion – mineralogy. It involved going out on weekly excursions in mines and quarries to collect crystallized minerals. These minerals then needed to be cleaned, trimmed, sorted and identified with the naked eye or under the microscope. In order to gain access to collecting sites and information about all the activities involved in mineralogy, I joined a mineral club. A few years later I became a member of two other clubs. This allowed me to meet hundreds of people from all walks of life. I became good friends with mine workers and experts in mineralogy who wrote scientific articles on the subject. 

To pursue my passion I travelled to Nova Scotia where I became a guide to other Quebecers who wanted to look for minerals on the beaches of the Bay of Fundy. I camped there for periods extending up to three months. I also travelled to Ontario, New York, California, Texas, Maine, New Hampshire, Florida and Arizona, always with the purpose of finding minerals. I contacted various mineral clubs in those places and collected in mines and quarries with members of the local mineral clubs. I also visited several museums with extensive mineral collections. 

My age has not yet become a problem in pursuing this activity I walk for long distances and carry considerable weight in backpacks. Now I use a walking stick on the rocky beaches of the Bay of Fundy. Before retiring, I felt that my new hobby had completely taken over my life and that my work was getting in the way. Therefore I had two reasons to look forward to retirement:  getting away from a disagreeable work environment and devoting my new free time to mineralogy.

I have always been very adventurous. This hobby of mine has opened new avenues and brought new friends that share my passion. It has opened doors to a whole new field of knowledge which was foreign to me. I subscribe to two magazines on the subject and I trade information and specimens with friends as far away as Australia. It is a universal hobby that can provide opportunities for establishing enduring relationships with people all over the world especially if one is willing to make the new contacts. It also creates bridges between age groups where children can be enticed by old collectors to embrace this hobby which will keep them ‘physically active’ and ‘intellectually stimulated’. These two points are also very important as you reach the age of retirement. Mineralogy has kept me away from the couch and rocking chair. It has also helped to keep my mind active by forcing me to remember minerals and localities.

In spite of the uncertain economy and the financial challenges of surviving on a reduced income I plan to pursue this hobby as long as my legs will carry me. I can control the difficulties and will tackle only what I am able to do. I remember seeing in the Mont Saint-Hilaire quarry very old collectors using canes to get around, but they still carried the fire in them for mineralogy. Only a very serious illness stops us. In any case, once you have reached the age of retirement, you begin to lose family and friends usually to illnesses. It makes you realize that every day is precious and should be enjoyed as if there was no tomorrow. Mineralogy has allowed me to do just that.

Passions are the motor of one’s life at any age and if you have none, you are in trouble even before retirement. Your passion gives shape and colour to your life. Before retirement, take stock of your passions and have the courage and audacity to pursue one or more with more vigour than before. It can guarantee your physical and mental health.

For those of you who are retired or are contemplating retirement I will leave you with this inspiring quote:

“Happiness is a choice that requires effort at times” – Anon

Françoise is on a roadcut looking for tourmaline in San Diego County, California east of Escondido.

À bientôt…..
Françoise Duranleau, Québec
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